Nikki Panache

This Friday NikkiPanache.com has been invited to the Freestyle Funny Comedy Show at Club Secrets in Winston-Salem, NC. The comedians are on a tour and I already know how funny a couple of them are from the radio station 102 Jamz, but have yet to actually witness a show. If you’re like me and want … Continue reading »

As an avid fan of Joe Budden, I have been following both his rap career and personal life since he first blew up in with the single “Pump it up.” The radio hit made me interested in the mixtape Joey, who isn’t ashamed to put everything he is going through and his emotions out there … Continue reading »

  Sweet Tea. Honey. Lemonade. Vintage wear and patio living. These are a few images that come to mind as I pour all over The Southern Gent. As you can tell from The Modern Outdoorsman, I’m truly inspired by my southern -sphere and enjoy some elements of country! And this beautiful bow tie striped in … Continue reading »

Friday is just another excuse for me to indulge in spirits! And my drink of choice, my preference rather, would be brown. Some say, “brown will bring you down.” Chuckles* But I don’t know what those people are drinking on … Cause brown lifts my spirit! And on that note, I’d like to introduce you … Continue reading »

On Monday, I woke up with every intention on mailing out my bow ties, purchasing shipping goodies, and cutting fabric. By 1 o’ clock, I had it all done. Then I ran across an interesting tweet that required action … It had me intrigued, pondering over the possibilities. At the moment, at the time that … Continue reading »

You don’t have to stand in long lines or endure poor weather conditions when shopping with The Female Haberdasher this Black Friday. Now until Tuesday, November 23, 2012 midnight, TFH offers Free Shipping (domestic). Use coupon code: SHIP2ME to take advantage of this offer when shopping for your next favorite bow tie! TFH designs freestyle bow … Continue reading »

Nikki Panache introduces Nikkipanache.com and the Female Haberdasher Bow Tie Shop. She defines “panache” and “haberdasher” and why she chose to use those words to define her brands.

Did anyone catch the American Music Awards last night? I missed most of it, having tuned in at the beginning of Stevie Wonder’s performance. And during that very flashy and over-the-top performance of Psy and Hammer, I caught a glimpse of one of my favorite actresses–Kerry Washington. She looked stunning in a canary yellow, lace, … Continue reading »

What started out as a blogging meeting with the intent to watch the results from the 2012 Presidential Election turned out to be more! More fun. More laughs. More of an event than a meeting. At around 7:35p, I met with @Nxl21Charlotte @CurtisWalls for a casual meeting at Smokey Bones. The place was pretty dead, so … Continue reading »

I’m geeked that one of my favorite shows–Gossip Girl–landed season 6. Now that Chuck Bass (Ed Westwick) rescued and revived his father Bart Bass from a fake death and a host of other scandals, we can all witness Chuck revert back to his more natural role–the ruthless, scheming, bad boy of the Upper East Side. … Continue reading »

While fabric shopping today and perusing the Internet, I found this wonderful poster! Here’s to all the women who appreciate a well-dressed man and a gentleman! For more info on how to get your very own custom bow tie, see my shop or email me at nikki@nikkipanache.com.

I believe when two or more parties come to the table with requests, demands, and skills, that all parties should be willing to contribute time, money and good effort to produce and bring to life a product. I don’t mean to treat all things as business deals, but then again “I do.” “I do.” That’s … Continue reading »

What do you want to do today? What is it that YOU want? These are some of the questions I ask myself daily, so I can be clear on me, my tasks, my day, and my future. Fortunately, I have the luxury of focusing on me and my needs and desires with some of the … Continue reading »

Hi, readers!! Here’s another bow tie from one of my client’s collection. It’s a beautiful, bespoke black and gold bow tie. This bow tie is perfect for work as it can be paired with an all black suit and or black collar shirt. It’s Sunday, so this would’ve been perfect for the pew and pulpit. … Continue reading »

I agreed to attend hot yoga at Gotta Yoga (Univ), a free class my fellow wellwisher–@TheyCallMeSash found at Charlotte on the Cheap. It was a 9 ‘o clock class which is kind of early for us partygoers. And after a long night of partying, I don’t believe I was in any shape to heat up … Continue reading »

I mentioned before that I’m now designing and sewing bowties through my new company–BoldTies! A new client just purchased his own collection of ten. These freestyle bowties are made from fabrics he hand picked. Here’s one of the ten. I will be sure to post the remaining 9 week-by-week. So stay tuned. Specs: -100% Cotton … Continue reading »

Last week, at the Black Enterprise Minority Supplier Forum, we talked about “meeting the task.” “Most black women have been taught to ‘meet the task’ which makes us more technically equipped,” said Bohannon. This week I encountered some folk who haven’t been meeting the task, personally and or professionally. And this really gets my blood … Continue reading »

Good day my friends!!! Here’s a poll that was inspired by Carl A Roberts new book–Good Men Do Cheat Yesterday, I updated my Facebook status to ask my FBF (Facebook Fam) “Do Good Men Cheat?” And let me just say, the ladies went INNN!! And after reading the responses, I must say that I’m proud … Continue reading »

Bevy Smith says, “I love a MAVERICK!”

From the runway to my inner circle, men and women are rocking bow ties, transforming the ordinary to extraordinaire! Emerging from the Old Word to contemporary fashion, bow ties are no longer solely worn by doctors, lawyers, accountants and engineers. Though bow ties still give off an air of sophistication and intellect, they are donned … Continue reading »

Last night, I ventured to Wet Willie’s, NC Music Factory, for the Where is the Love Forum. Here, about 30 people gathered to discuss dating and social media. This well organized forum was co-hosted by fellow blogger Shameika of MofoChronicles. Why is dating and finding love such an enigma? It sure didn’t seem that way … Continue reading »

I’m often teased by my girlfriends about my slight love for white guys. I understand that my girlfriends are down for the brothers long-term and can’t find the je ne sais quoi in any man who isn’t black. I, on the other hand, find attraction across color lines. Men are men. If he can imbibe … Continue reading »

Snickers* There’s so much controversy in these quotes because they reveal the ugly truth … Nearly about everything. Here are 5 quotes that I’ve encountered by way of people in my life … in the past 7 days. (“Why didn’t she say a week?” Oh, let’s admit it; seven days sounds more recent.) Please enjoy! … Continue reading »

Nas’ album Life is Good just dropped last Tuesday, July 17th and let me just start off by stating there is no way in the world I could convey to you how great this album is, you just have to go experience it for yourself. Nas tells of his past and everything he’s experienced to get to where … Continue reading »

I believe that healing is my purpose! New R&B/Indie artist–Cordula Davis is not to be taken lightly … when it comes to her music, her man, and her life’s purpose. Her passion for life and love pours out in every song, uptempo or not, as she sings to heal others and tell of a love … Continue reading »

I had the opportunity to drop by the very talked about Delta’s, restaurant/bar which is located in Center City Charlotte. Beautifully decorated in white and cherry woods, Delta’s concept is ingenious. It feels like the 1930s–Black Renaissance–minus the flappers and cigar smoke. Attendees surely come dressed to impress–think suits and cocktail dresses. There’s a room-length … Continue reading »

I encountered an elderly lady, few weeks back, and she told me something as if it were laid on her heart by God. As it if Moses himself had appeared in a fiery bush to advise her to say this very thing to me. As we sat at the kitchen table, tying up conversations about … Continue reading »

Here at NikkiPanache.com we just received word that one of my favorite West Coast Bangers, E-40′s Function, has wrapped up a video shoot for the remix featuring Chris Brown, Young Jeezy, Problem, French Montana & Red Café (with a cameo from others including Big Sean). The original was all west coasters E-40 featuring YG, Problem, … Continue reading »

Real life and real dating, incident 1, 2, and 3. Are you ready for this?! Incident 1: So I’m seeing someone, and I am reluctant to commit. Commitment feels like imprisonment. On the threshold of commitment, where my singleness ends, I began worrying about just how many mood swings I must endure, how often will … Continue reading »

A small group of men and women gathered tonight at Pisces Sushi, The MET, to support the soft launch of Southern Gentleman Style Council. This members-only club are on a mission to positively impact the community in style, from fashion shows to voicing political concerns at the Democratic National Convention! Interesting. Please see below for … Continue reading »

Last night, I went to one of Charlotte’s premiere bars–World of Beer which is located in SouthEnd Charlotte. The place is loaded with beer of all kinds, approximately 516, and is equipped with the best customer service Charlotte’s nightlife has got to offer.

Below are actual pull-quotes stated by men … during recent dates. Lol. Comedy or tragedy? You be the judge. However, I must say I appreciated their efforts to make me smile or laugh. Enjoy. Quote 1 “Sexy, intelligent dark chocolate femininity wrapped in a red carpet-ready dress of elegance.” The above is my all-time favorite … Continue reading »

I’ve been wanting to veer away from the entertainment writing and wanting to give you more reality. I have this thing about having honest conversations and, oftentimes, I stress their importance to whoever that will listen. As I go on in life, growing, meeting new people and discovering more things about myself, I face more … Continue reading »

By now the World is enraptured by the next great thing and that next great thing  people are clamoring about is Jeremy Lin. Lin has generated all sorts of buzz leading the New York Knicks on an impressive win streak. The more impressive part is the Jeremy Lin has done it without any help from … Continue reading »

Practical Tips–Reinforced by the Past Weekend 1. Don’t share personal information with strangers, whether in a bar setting or via text messaging. You don’t know them, and they don’t know you. 2. Always use protection. 3. Don’t overthink and don’t overdrink. Both have their repercussions. 4. Don’t break up with ppl via texts. It causes … Continue reading »

Blogger gives her Top Picks for Netflix. If you aren’t going out tonight, you can cuddle up to a boo or a glass of wine while checking out Nikki’s Flicks. Continue reading »

“Salut!’ Blogger captures jazzy, new Uptown lounge–Kanvas. Vino, good eats and great company. Take a glimpse of what you’ve been missing. Opened Wed – Sat, located on 6th and NoDa. Continue reading »